Can we payoff debts of our parents on us?

Spending time with them who matters the most

Hey there! Before I start, I want to ask one question,”Do you have any debts on yourself by your parents?” Let me know if there is any. But for me, there are Unlimited debts on me by my parents. You are also working with debts upon your head of your parents that you can’t pay off. . We all know that we can’t pay off Parents’ debts on us. But we can do something for them. Let’s Begin!

Parents do many things for us, what can we do for them? They are the ones who provided us everything we need, so much love and support, defended us in every situation and teach us manners. What can you to be remembered by the world? Many are being remembered by their achievements, many are remembered by their wealth like Jeff Bezos but many are remembered by their behavior and habits they follow. Who teach us these habits? Who teach us about good manners and bad manners? Who teach us to respect others? They are the only ones – Mom-Dad. Your father drained out of office work throughout the day. What can you do to make him happy at night time? Just ask him these 3 questions-

  • How was your day?
  • What did you achieve today?
  • What do want to do now?

Ask him and get into action. If he wants to sleep, then turn off the lights and get him to sleep. If he wants to continue a talk with you, then stop other work and get into the miraculous talk.
Parents work hard for their children. Do you know why we should not ask a man’s salary and woman’s age? It is because a man never earns for himself and a woman never lives for herself. What we can do for our parents? Here, we have two ways, either you declare bankruptcy means that you accept that you cannot do anything for your parents or adapt these 10 habits in your daily life. I suggest you to accept the second way. Let’s see what these ways are-

1. Spend time with your parents:

In this busy world, people don’t have much time for themselves, then how can they spare time a day with their parents? They don’t have much time for family. Just busy with work! I can give you one tip for time management. Visit this article that is posted on Addicted2Success. It suggests 10 different ways to manage your time. You must spend some time with your parents. This relax you.

2. Share your day happenings:

Share your day experience with your parents. You can adapt this if you want to grow. Parents want only one thing from their children that is, Your achievements and your presence. Share everything with your parents whether it was good or bad.

3. Help them in doing new things:

Next thing you can do for your parents is to help them in exploring new things. Whether it is any adventurous thing or technical things like using Social Media. This keeps them updated in the world.

4. Go on a walk with your father:

This seems strange. But it makes your bond with your family stronger. Go on a walk with your father at least once a week. This has an additional advantage. This also keeps you healthy and active.

5. Take advice from your parents:

Your parents are more experienced than you. Discuss different matters of your work or life and ask for their compliments and advices. This helps to solve different matters as they were in that field for years. This doesn’t applies for those who had chosen different careers from that of their parents. But the point is applicable for all of us. Taking advice really helps!

6. Do not criticize them:

In this modern world, people are getting down on wrong tracks. They believe that their parents are getting burden on them after getting married. After that, they send them to Old age home. I already discussed in last point that they are more experienced than you. They will never give you wrong advice. In childhood, they scolded you to become a good person in future. And you are sending them Old age home? They will never let you know if they are sad and feeling lonely. You have to understand their emotions. I considered this point as the core point of these 10 ways. You may adapting all these 10 ways but if you criticize your parents for small matters, other 9 ways are useless. Therefore, give them your love not quarrel.

7. People love compliments:

We aren’t talking about others but here, it is applicable too. Everyone has some hobbies, right? We can pursue all those hobbies either in childhood or in old age. Your father may have hobby of art or writing. Your mother may have hobby of cooking or beauty. Compliment on your father’s hobby. Believe me, they will love it!

8. Play your favourite game with your parents:

Yes. Play your favourite game that you played with your parents in childhood. Enjoying with your parents helps them to get out of grief about your security and makes them happy.

9. Refresh your memories along with your family:

Get your childhood memories bloom again in your life. Refresh your memories with your parents that lights up you and your family feelings. But don’t remember the bad situations of your past. Try to refresh only good memories.

10. Have a food with your parents at least once a day (Lunch or Dinner):

Yes, it is a good idea to show your love towards your parents. It is said that,”All the money you earned is useless if you cannot eat with your family at least once a day!” It is absolutely true.

Conclusion:

I suggested you the 10 ways to make your parents happy. Now, it’s up to you, how many you adapt. If you ask me how many I adapted, my answer would be 8. It is easy for me as I am a student but you can have all these 10 in your life if you determine. Let me know any other ways. Thank you!

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