We are all stuck. Everybody is reading this because they are stuck. Even I am also writing because I am stuck too. I am stuck in my life. I am stuck in studies. I am stuck in tension of studies. I am stuck in inconsistency. I am stuck.
The reason behind every failure is lack of mindset. The lack of mindset to solve problems. The lack of mindset from getting out of problem. The lack of mindset to be calm in tough situations.
There is no Darkness in this world. There is not a thing like Darkness exists. There is only absence of light.
Everybody gets blind in darkness because they are stuck in darkness. When we fail, we get stuck in it. We just thought about how this happened, why this happened, why this is happening to me only… It is the widespread problem in this world.
Besides thinking about the hell problem, think about it solution. Listen, it is already happened. You can’t reverse it. It is happened because you have made something wrong. That’s it.
Don’t think about it much. Instead, think about it solution. Think how it can be corrected.
What will you do when someone got seriously injured in a car accident? Will you take the victim to hospital or just wander around the scene thinking how that has taken place? Of course, you must take the victim to the hospital.
You cannot waste time as he is taking his last few breathes. You must take him to hospital otherwise, you will be responsible for his death too.
Similarly, when you fail, no matter what has happened, you must not waste time in mocking around the problem, besides you must find the solution. And if it goes too much wrong, you will only be responsible for it as you haven’t taken any action at time.
Find the solution. You may ask how can we fix the problem. The answer to it can be defined in simple 3 steps.
1. Be calm and take a deep breath.
2. Figure out how it happened and fix it.
3. Learn from it and take care it should not happen in future.
That’s it.
I must tell you that remember your failures and what you have learnt from it. That’s what how it works.
All you have learnt from today’s post is to find a solution. There is no Darkness but actually, the absence of light.
Lit up your mind when there is darkness everywhere. Never waste time in finding ‘Why’. Instead, use that time in finding the solution to it.
Simple.